Friday, January 29, 2010

Send A Card After A Miscarriage What To Do For Sister-in-law Who Had A Miscarriage Yesterday?

What to do for sister-in-law who had a miscarriage yesterday? - send a card after a miscarriage

) My sister-in-law (as close as a real sister to me yesterday had a miscarriage. I am in South Carolina and Pennsylvania. It does not feel natural yet to talk. I want to send flowers or something, but I do not know exactly what would be appropriate. Suggestions? I will send a letter or note regardless.

9 comments:

TheAlmig... said...

When I lost my first child this summer at 20 weeks, my aunt sent me the most beautiful arrangement of Stargazer lilies and roses for baby. Maintained to know that a lot, but had no sensitivity to try to move the conversation was a great comfort to me. Believe me, if you are in this situation, then the last thing we want a loud sympathy, but little details can make the difference.

-Emily- Ethan is here!!! said...

My sister-in-law lost her baby @ 21 weeks in January because of a cord accident. I called the florist and told them what happened, and they provide a very nice facility and delivered. I told them to keep themselves from pink to .. and it was a girl that has lost ..

She is now 25 weeks with a baby and nerves during pregnancy ..

Thank you for your little sister sorry ... Women love flowers ..

Ginger Y said...

Send your tulips. Only in a variety of colors to brighten your day. When my father died, sending people all kinds of lilies and food, but to be honest ... My friend gave me tulips were the only thing I really feel a little better. Again, it was not 100% but he is happy that all the lilies in the world and very unusual.

frederic... said...

You already answered your question, just to be there for her if she wanted to speak and tell you that I pray for your loss and for a speedy recovery for the loss of your baby I'm sorry

mυм2GaвriεLiηђєaνєη& preg wit #2 said...

Hey hun,

be there for her when she needs to talk to and a card from a poem or something.

God bless the support is xx BESTEST, you can give

Timid Women Rarely Make History said...

Flowers would be nice. Or a book and a map

Hyacinth (White) = beauty, I pray for you
(Rose Dark Crimson) = sadness

Brooklyn... said...

Yes ... Flowers would be great. Hell, not much there to visit. Enter your words of comfort! It happened to my aunt 2 years ago, and we thank you sincerely for my company, and we were very close! :) Good luck!

Pam said...

A sympathy card would be a good thing

katiecat... said...

Why not a trip up there, I'm sure would rather see u then a card or flowers.

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